10 Essential Questions to Empower Your Student for a Successful School Year

The first week of school is a golden opportunity for our kids—not just to meet teachers, but to understand how their classes will work.

As parent a parent, you can set up your child for success by encouraging them to ask the right questions early. It’s not about being pushy—it’s about helping them feel confident, prepared, and connected.

Here’s what to suggest they ask (and why it matters).

1. “What’s the best way to reach you?”

Every teacher has a preferred way of communicating—email, school portal, messaging app.

Why it matters: Your child will know exactly how to get in touch when they have questions or need help.

2. “What does a successful student in your class do?”

Teachers notice the habits that lead to success.

Why it matters: Your child gets a clear picture of what’s expected beyond just “doing the homework.”

3. “What’s your late work policy?”

Sometimes life gets busy—sports, family events, illness.

Why it matters: Knowing the rules now helps your child avoid surprises later.

4. “What’s the best way to study for your class?”

Different subjects need different strategies.

Why it matters: Your child can work smarter, not just harder.

5. “Are there extra credit or enrichment opportunities?”

This shows initiative and curiosity.

Why it matters: Your child knows how to challenge themselves or recover from a low grade if needed.

6. “What should I do if I don’t understand something?”

Some teachers want kids to stay after class, others prefer an email first.

Why it matters: Your child learns the fastest way to get help before problems build up.

7. “Is there anything you wish students knew before starting this class?”

Teachers often have tips that aren’t written anywhere.

Why it matters: Your child gets insight that can make the whole year easier.

8. “How often do you update grades?”

Some teachers update weekly, others less often.

Why it matters: Your child can track progress without unnecessary stress.

9. “What’s your approach to group projects?”

Do students pick their own groups, or are they assigned?

Why it matters: Your child can be ready when those projects come up.

10. “Do you have any classroom pet peeves?”

It might be small things—like talking over instructions or using a phone.

Why it matters: Avoiding these makes a positive impression and keeps class running smoothly.

Final thought for parents:

Even though you can't be in the classroom with your student, you can equip them with tools to succeed. Encouraging them to ask these questions in the first week builds confidence, creates stronger teacher relationships, and helps them feel in control of their own learning from day one.